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The Power-Of-Refusal

al-Muqaddimah/Prelude

This is something that I’ve observed/witnessed for Years of my Life. The Power-Of-Refusal is literally the Best-Way to learn/know who someone truly is. In fact, utilizing the Power-Of-Refusal: one will learn/know more about a Person, relative to how they Respond to Refusal than engaging them for Years. Reason being is that Refusal-Response is 💯%-Truth/Honesty. It’s humanly impossible to be unauthentic, as per Refusal-Response.

Examining Entitlement-Addiction

Anytime, everytime, we encounter Refusal: we will always manifest our True-Colors. It’s simply Automatic-Response. There’s literally 0-Way that any of us, as Humans, can possibly mask/hide our True-Responses to Refusal. Likewise, those whom witness/observe Responses to our Refusals: we’re capable to complete view the Wholeness of Others, as Raw/Unfiltered as they really are. There’s absolutely 0-Pretending, when one responds to the Refusal of the Other.

Pseudo-Entitlement: Social-Media Edition

To test this via Real-Life/Real-Time:

The Next-Time anyone asks you for anything, then simply tell them “No” or refuse to grant them what they’ve inquired/ordered. Of course, in a Respectful-Way mind you…nonetheless just do it and assess their Initial-Reaction. #TryIt

I can humanly guarantee you: everything I’ve aforementioned will be witnessed/observed via any/all those whom subscribed to the Challenge I’ve suggested. You’ll most definitely see their True-Colors, via responding to your Refusal.

I know, for a Fact, that I’ve lost “Friends”, “Friendships”, etc. because I refused such Persons Various-Things. And…guess what?!!! That’s 💯%-OK, because if someone/anyone is willing to severe Ties with you over you refusing them something: it means that they’d be willing to betray you if offered what they couldn’t get from you.

You’ll never truly know anyone, unless/until you observe their Reaction to you telling them “No”.

Gareth Bryant



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