“Those whom believe pay attention: Upon you are yourselves.”
(Noble-Qur’ān: Chpt.13, V.11)

No one can make us happy, but anyone can make us miserable. In fact, one of the Major-Reasons how/why any or all of our Human-Relationships fail: we audaciously/arrogantly expect Others to make us “happy”. No, rather, we must make ourselves happy. We can, however, enhance the Happiness of Others. But, we can never cause the Happiness of Others. We’re actually unjust to People, if/when we attempt forcing them to be responsible/accountable for our Happiness. But, we still do so anyhow. We do this, exclusively to shift Personal-Responsibility/Accountability.

This literally occurs all the Time: Miserable-People want Others to pay for the Lack-Of-Happiness within themselves.
Gareth Bryant
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